What is Veteran’s Day?

No, it’s not a day to go shopping because there’s a huge Veteran’s Day sale going on somewhere. It’s a day meant to recognize all those who have served in the United States military or are currently serving. But, I have to ask myself – what, exactly, is Veteran’s Day to me?

To me, Veteran’s Day is that one day out of the year that you take a moment to reflect on and remember the pride you once had (but maybe now overlook) for selflessly, willingly giving of yourself to whatever branch of the service, for however long. It is the day that everyone says “thank you for your service” – a salutation that absolutely annoys the shit of me, as a United States Navy veteran! There is no need to THANK me for my service because I did so, willingly. There was no draft that made me sign up, no one dragging me to the recruiters office, and no one ordering me to get my butt to boot camp! Although, I think by the time I actually did enlist, my mother had enough of my shenanigans so boot camp was a much safer place for me (sorry, Mom!).

To me, as a veteran, Veteran’s Day is just a title for one specific day, and some may get mad at me for saying that – but that is how I feel. Veteran’s Day should be every day, in my humble opinion. Every member, past and present, should be treated with admiration, dignity, and reverence, every day! Most of all, they should be treated with utmost respect and they should behave with respect! The sacrifices that have been made by taking the oath of office is not one taken lightly. Veteran’s Day is also a day for the mother and father who send their son or daughter off, not knowing where they might be going. Veteran’s Day is for those children who might have a missing parent at their game or school play. Veteran’s Day is for that spouse who sleeps alone at night, missing their military member – in my humble opinion.

Perhaps there are some of you who may get offended by what I have written – and that’s okay. I am but a humble veteran and in no need of a thank you. To my fellow veteran’s, I say “nice job” and welcome home. I salute you with respect, honor, and dignity.

Goodnight.